Oftentimes, we stumble upon this autograph/slambook- ish question:
Who is Your First Love?
It is a question I'd love to answer proudly but I just simply couldn't because, hard it is to admit, I do not know the answer.
What makes your first love your first love?
Is it your first crush? Your first kiss? Your first obsession? Your first boyfriend? Is he the "one- that- got- away"? Is he your "could- have- been"? Is he your bestfriend- turned- could- have- been- but- decided- to- just- stay- friends- to- avoid- risking- the- friendship? Is he the "Will" to your "Grace"?
Some say that their first love was their first boyfriend. But isn't it that first loves leave you with happy, blissful memories? In my case, my ex didn't and isn't worthy to be named MY FIRST LOVE.
I'd love to say that A is my first love because admittedly, I've never loved someone as deeply as I love him. Just recently, I realized that my love for A is so
(I'm a loss for words for the proper term) great that what I had with my ex pales in comparison. But then, if A is my first love, what do I call my ex? Is he just someone I was in love with and didn't really love?
So, really. What makes your first love your first love?
3 Comments:
he was my first love because it was with him that i felt the high of being madly in love and the low of having my heart broken.
so i guess your first love is the person who can make you go through the extremes in the emotional spectrum.
(aka pinayhekmi)
I wouldn't know. My hubby is the first and only man I've loved in my life. Hehehe...so romantic.
i wish i could write a novel here, but i will spare u... in your case... i think Alan is your first love. I know u, ur ex, alan, and "YOU & ALAN".
in my case.. hmmmm give me a few years and if this guy is still 'the' guy, then maybe it could be true that your first is your true love. pinayhekmi could attest to that. ;)
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